
I want a life with someone, the actual texture of it, the shared mornings and the difficult conversations and the slow building of something that gets more valuable the longer it goes. I'm warm and I'm decided and I have a lot to give to the right person. So if you're still figuring out whether you want something serious, or keeping options open, or not sure you're ready. I genuinely wish you well and I'm genuinely not your person right now, and that's completely fine, there's no judgment in it, just honesty about where I am and what I'm looking for. If you're looking for a wife, not the idea of one, but an actual woman to build a life with then I think we should talk.