
I am a widow, born and raised in Bakersfield (lived almost 10 yrs in Ventura on a 1942 Capt. Gig 40 ft Power boat) then back to Bako to take of Mother N Law who had ALZ and late hubby, and 2 bro n laws also passed of it, my hubby died of ALZ. June 2022 ...HORRIBLE! HORRIBLE! disease and I can prove its hereditary!!! We were together for almost 46 yr. Aug of 2022 would have been mar. 44 yrs. I took care of him till I made a decision to sell our home and move into Senior Housing because they 24/7 security guards and didn't have anything we slept 1 night on a blow-up mattress and on Jun 10 2017,we walked out of the Apt. complex to meet my bro's and bro n Lawton move the rest of our stuff well that didn't happen for him he fell and broke his hip, and was put into a rest home for rehab and it was (Kingston & it took me 3 tries till I got it closed), by KP till he passed away after it closed & they moved him to Height Skilled Care GREAT PLACE (compared from what he had came from)when we got him there he was covered with bed sores from head to toes...literally) other than home.
I have been a Genealogist (family history) for 43 yrs personally and as a side job,I am the oldest of 11 (that I was told by my dad when I met him at 26), my mother had 7 other kids from my stepfather, my dad had 2 girls and 1 boy with different women, but he was kinda right he would divorce and marry the pregnant woman then move on.
Go figure!
Sorry about a book, I over-explain everything my late hubby used to say!